Saturday, August 8, 2009
The End
I was asked by a professor at Drake what "home" means to me. The rest of the students all said where they were from or their family, etc. I think that these things are important but they are not home to me. I believe that where I go, that becomes my home. I never leave home because home is what is buried deep inside of my heart and mind. It sounds a little cheesy but the world is home to me, it is for everyone, people just don't realize it at times. So for the past two months, Nairobi, Kenya has been my home; it's been where I've eaten, slept, worked, lived, and built many new friendships and more. I love Kenya, I love Nairobi, and I've fallen in love with Ngong Road Childrens Association and its people.
I've grown more here than I thought imaginable and I feel like I've seen parts of this Earth that everybody needs to see for themselves. I don't feel blessed or fortunate or anything like that, I just feel...good.
Goodbye Kenya, I am looking forward to when I can see you again.
Thursday, July 30, 2009
Is This Right?
Wednesday, July 29, 2009
Happy Birthday
Jackson roasted a goat and everyone was talking and drinking and limbo-ing, etc. All my host families stopped by too which was cool; so did Collin and Jeni (two Mzungu ministers who've been hanging out with us here at Ngong Road Children Association lately). Once the music came out, everyone started dancing with each other. At first, I didn't join in but then I felt the need to dance. So once I joined, I was put into the center of the circle where Tom dumped the FIRST bucket of water on me. I was soaked but I decided to keep dancing anyway. Everyone continued to dance and talk and drink until it was time for me to cut the cake. There wasn't a knife because it was used to cut the goat, so I was joking around acting like I was going to cut the cake with my hand. But then, a second bombardment of H2O was thrown on top of me so I felt that it was time to cut the cake, with my hands. This was a mistake; Jackie, Nixon, and a couple others starting grabbing the cake and covering my face with it. I then took some cake and got Jackie and Nixon back; when I turned around, everyone was grabbing cake and chasing each other around. Once everyone's faces were covered with cake, the cake fight died down. Then people started to wash off and head home.
Paul and I got to the office first this morning and we were frankly not very surprised at what we saw. Anyone who went to college knows that a good night is followed by a rough morning. There was dirt, cake, and goat everywhere. Paul and I began sweeping, mopping, wiping cake off of walls and doors and doing the dishes before the case workers and Tom got back to the office.
Overall, I'd say the birthday was a success (so much better than Paul's, no big deal).
Tuesday, July 28, 2009
Last Weeks
Saturday, July 25, 2009
What's Happening
We had omena for the second time yesterday, that's the little fish (minnows) that stare at you while eating them. In the photo above, you can see omena, ugali (the "white blob"), and sukumawiki (the "green stuff"). We also went to Carnivore last night, they didn't serve any game meat but I got to try some ostirich meatballs which were decent. We did a little drinking, a little dancing, a little eating, it was a good time.
I'm going to have a pretty busy week next week as well. I'm still figuring out what to do with Dropbox with Keith, I'll be editing all the videos, and making sure all the pictures get into the right place too. Paul and I are also moving back to Rose's from Andrew's. Andrew is very kind and a great host but the commute from his house to the office is about an hour and twenty minutes one way and he works late. Paul and I spent more time in his car with him than being awake in his house, it took away from any quality time that could've been spent with
Finally, every I travel, I buy an art piece for myself that is unique to the country I'm visiting. I bought two ebony wood, hand-carved sculptures today at the Maasai market for the price of one, the power of having a Kenyan woman with you while purchasing goods. That's about it for now, I'll keep you all updated.
Wednesday, July 22, 2009
Witches and Demons
I have also been working on the "Voices of Ngong Road" videos this week and will be getting five more children today to answer the three questions.
An interesting thing Paul and I have run into when discussing religion with the case workers was the fact that they believe in witches, witchcraft, and demons. There has actually been witch hunts in Kenya while I've been here and I've seen women who were killed on the news because they were accused of being witches. This was a huge throw back to old American history with that whole Salem witch trial phase we went through. Men and Women accused of witchcraft have actually been burned alive on stakes here, I never thought I'd be alive when something like that could happen. The case workers were trying to give me reasons why they believed they were witches, they kept talking about how they ran around naked at night and scared people in their homes. I told them that that was called "streaking" and that a lot of people have done it, that doesn't mean they're witches. I respect Kenyans and how almost all of them are Christian, I think it's great that religion can bring millions of people together like it does here. The only problem is that sometimes, paranoia caused by these religious leaders and beliefs cause the death of many innocent people. This isn't just happening here with Christianity but it happens everywhere with all different religious sects. That's my little humanity issue rant for the day, thanks for reading.
Tuesday, July 21, 2009
Cold Milk
I was also suprised to learn from Andrew that during the "cold" season here (which is July), children have to avoid eating or drinking cold items because it can sometimes cause a cold or even tonsillitis. I thought Peter was joking around when he was telling us he couldn't drink cold beer because it gave him the flu but I guess there's some truth behind it.
I've been working on some things that Paula has asked me to do lately. Along with taking more and more pictures, I'm making short one minute or less clips of children answering three questions:
What do you like best about Ngong Road Children Association?
What do you want to be when you grow up?
What message would you like to give to your sponsors?
I worked with five children today (three of which said they wanted to be a pilot when they grew up) and will be getting the other ten later this week. Then I'll just have to edit the clips together for each child to make a watchable clip.
Saturday, July 18, 2009
Hannington Odhiambo
Thursday, July 16, 2009
The Matatu Coalition
After riding in the car with Peter a couple times, I decided to videotape a ride and what it was like in Kenya. The clip you're seeing is a Matatu attempting to pass another one but in the process, almost hitting us. The reason Peter didn't move over until the last minute is because there was a cyclist on the left that he didn't want to hit. I was laughing because that was frankly pretty exciting and I wanted to catch something like this on film. Matatu drivers are very competitive here but they're all part of a Matatu coalition-like thing. You can't just buy a Matatu and start working, you have to pay the leaders a certain amount of money to be able to do this. If you don't people have been killed and their Matatus have been burned.
Anyway, this weekend is going to be fairly exciting for Paul and I. We've each had a fairly busy week so this Saturday, we'll being going to a movie and having some somasas and beer. And then Sunday, we'll be going to the club for some 12 dollar massages and a swim. And a quick update on the sushi here, Paul and I were perfectly fine. It was very delicious and filling for only being nine bucks.
This is also going to be our last weekend at Boniface and Rose's house. Paul and I had a lot of fun there and Boniface is a very interesting person who has a lot to say about everything, he's great to talk to. Our next homestay is going to be with a man named Andrew I think, I heard that he also has a nice home with a working shower so that should be nice before the holiday camp in a couple weeks.
Wednesday, July 15, 2009
Mzungu - A Person of European Decent
Something else I'd like to talk about is how strange a feeling it is to be called a name based solely on the color of my skin. I don't mind being called "Mzungu" by children or Peter or workers in the office (I just call them "Mafrika") but when strangers on the street try to get my attention by screaming "Mzungu" at me, it's almost hurtful. If a Kenyan was to walk by that same stranger, they would politley say "bwana" (which is Mr. in swahili) or say hello to try to get their attention. I've felt like a minority before when I traveled to Tibet, Japan, or Morocco but never to the extent as in Kenya. I know "Mzungu" isn't a racist term, in fact, Paul and I say it all the time if we see one walking down the street or driving by but after a while, you realize that that word comes with a lot of preconcieved notions about a white person. I am not insulted by the term and I will continue using it but I just wanted to say how strange a feeling it is to have the color of your skin be the only thing people think about when they first see you. I'm glad I've felt this though, it puts me in another man's shoes, ones that I've never truly tried on before.
Tuesday, July 14, 2009
Jagiet and Meru
Sunday, July 12, 2009
Church
The whole service was a little more than two hours long and it was all interesting except for one thing that kind of annoyed me, the sermon or the "message." It wasn't like most services I've been to where the pastor or priest attempts to teach a message by speaking to the congregation. It was more a man, yelling at the congregation, running around the entire church shouting into his mic. He sat in a chair, ran up on stage, walked in defined circles, hid behind a wall, and the whole time screamed swahili into a mic for half an hour. He got pretty close to Paul and I a couple times and we could see he was drenched in sweat. Throughout the entire sermon, people would yell "Amen" or "Alleluia" from different parts of the church and everybody seemed to enjoy it. It was a very different experience for me; I've never enjoyed having God screamed at me but it was interesting to see the different responses from the people in the congregation. I'm glad I went because it taught me a lot about the religion in this culture but it would be tough for me to sit through two more hours of that.
Friday, July 10, 2009
Day in the Life 2
This is a video of Alice Lavender. She is sponsored by my aunt and uncle and goes to General Service Unit (GSU). She is a very sweet young woman and really wants to help those who need it. I admire all these children's ambitions, it's shocking sometimes to see their persistance when faced with the hardships they have to go through.
Other than that, today is yet another Saturday program so I'll be going out there when I'm done here to take some more pics and to hang out with the kids. Peter is also planning on taking Paul and I to a place called Carnivore; it's a restaurant of some sort where you eat all kinds of strange African delights such as hippo, gnu, giraffe, ostirich, zebra, etc. cooked on traditional Maasai swords. I've been doing some research on it and some people say it's great and others say it's terrible. Peter said it would cost about $20 to $30 but some websites say it's about $45. I also saw a review from last month that said they stopped serving game meat which worries me. I would love to go if they served what Peter said they do so I think Paul and I are going to call them to see what the deal is.
Topride Maasai
Thursday, July 9, 2009
Wednesday, July 8, 2009
Day in the Life
Here's the Day in the Life video I made for Gervas Ouma. I'm not sure how long it will take for it to load in America but here, it takes forever. I made this with Windows Movie Maker, I could've done some better work with a better camera and better software but I think this is pretty decent for now. We got new internet service which made this possible (it's extremley fast with just one or two people on line but once you get passed four people, the speed drops dramatically). This service is still a lot better than what we had but it seems like it won't get any better here in Kenya.
Tuesday, July 7, 2009
General Service Unit (GSU)
Saturday, July 4, 2009
Happy Independence Day
Paul and I will be going to GSU (one of our schools) Monday so I'll be starting on my video of Alice Lavender then. She is the sponsored child of my aunt and uncle, Kari and Dave, so I thought that was pretty interesting. Anyway, that's it for now but I'll let you all know if anything new comes up.
Friday, July 3, 2009
Pleats
The reason that I put the picture of a flower I took up is because everywhere I travel, if I ever see an interesting plant, I try to get a good pic of it. I thought this was a pretty good one. Also, we found out that Jackson's cousin in Tanzania died so this can be for him too. Katunzi was really close with him. This brings up an interesting cultural point though about Kenyans; everytime a loved one passes, friends of the family collect money and give the family their cash to pay for the funeral and any other payments. They don't have life insurance here so this is a great way to help out. I saw this first-hand when all the case-workers through in money for the cause.
Wednesday, July 1, 2009
Kenyan Weather, Culture, and Peter
I want to talk about a few more cultural things or just random stuff I've noticed about the Kenyans. One is the liquids they drink. Most Kenyans like warm milk, warm beer, or warm soda pop with their warm meals after a hot day. Peter told us that when he was in America, he drank cold beverages but once he tried them back in Kenya, he felt like he was getting a cold. Everything's hot here (except for July). Second is traffic laws. They are mainly obselete here. If someone's going slow, you pass them into oncoming traffic. We were driving one time and we saw two matatus driving at us, blocking the entire street. One pushed the other out of the way so that they wouldn't hit us and Peter had to partially swerve out of the way to avoid getting hit (I got the whole thing on video to show you Mzungus what its like). Third, which I find very interesting is the "second" names of Kenyans. They have last names, but also a second (similair to a middle name). So for example, when I was given the name Kajairo, that is just another name that people can call me, Olynyk isn't usually mentioned unless it's under official circumstances. The second names for Kenyans usually have something to do with the way they were born (time, place, etc.). Another thing which is a little more serious is the treatment of women here. From what I've seen, women are taught to be a little more submissive here and they are degraded fairly often. The dancing at times, especially in the clubs, can be very degrading towards the women but they always look like they're enjoying it (if an independent American women was brought here and treated like that, I would get out of the way).
Finally, I'd like to tell you a little bit about Peter. He's grown pretty close to Paul and I the past few weeks and has told us a lot about his life and family. His dad left his family when Peter was very young because he was looking for a job outside of Kibera and Peter's mom died when he was 11. Peter was left with his siblings to try to survive in the slums. The older siblings didn't want to take care of the younger ones so they left Peter's home to find jobs for themselves. Peter found a church that supplied lunch for him and he also met a woman who basically became his new mother. She fed him dinner almost every night and he would sometimes sleep at her house because he and her eldest son became good friends. Peter also doesn't know his actual birthday but he guessed the year and date one day in school when all the kids were telling the teacher their birthdays. He assumed it was around the same year that all the children were saying. Over the years, some of his siblings have passed away; one story we heard was about his brother 15 years ago who was shot with an arrow by some tribesman who were trying to rob him. He never went to the hospital for it because he felt fine but he died a few days later. Peter's father returned into his life once he was an adult and they spent a little time together but Peter was never very close with him. He died a few years after returning. I am always learning more about Peter Ndungu and his life story and it amazes me as to what he has achieved over all these years. He made it out of the slums when most are born, live, and die there.
Tuesday, June 30, 2009
Libraries and Islamist Coalitions
Sunday, June 28, 2009
I Miss My Hair
Saturday, June 27, 2009
Afline & Gervas
I also spoke with Gervas Ouma. He's one of the children I am making a "Day in the Life" video of. He is very talkative and a very good singer as well. I'll be sending some clips over to Keith very soon.
Friday, June 26, 2009
Kibera and More
Today Paul and I started teaching the case workers how to type and use Microsoft Word more effectively. We had them take a test to find their words per minute and it was, frankly, quite shocking to see how poorly they did in comparison to Paul and I. But it's understandable because they were never taught how to type in school, they never even had computers.
Oh, quick update on the pineapple incident. I'm good. It didn't affect me or knock me out in anyway so that's good. I'm thinking of trying some other fruits, you know, try my luck. We also ate some minnows last night which were tasty, heads and eyes and all. Kind of awkward when they're checking you out with wide eyes while you're munching on them but Paul and I pulled through.
Next week, Paul and I will be moving to our next homestay with a board member named Rachel. I met her, her husband and their children already and they all seem very nice.
Tomorrow, during the Saturday Program, I will begin pulling kids from the activites to get their headshots which is one of my jobs while I'm here. There will be approximatley 24o children in the program by August which is amazing since the organization was only started 2 years ago. I am also experimenting with video editing but it may end up with me just giving Keith a large pile of video clips and let him do the rest of the work, but I think I'm doing pretty good so far.
Thursday, June 25, 2009
The Plan
Peter, Paul and I have also made some schedules up so that we can get most of the jobs we're here to do done before the August camp. Next week, Paul and I will spend two days getting the library together which will really help the kids check out books more fluidly on saturdays. Keith and I have also been emailing back and forth to figure out which pictures he wants, and what exactly he wants for videos. The plan is that I am going to be making 4-6 "Day in the Life" videos of outgoing children in the program. Right now, some ideas for kids are Gervas Ouma, Alice Lavender, Noah Ngugi, Marleen Makuri, and Michelle Akuni.
Also, Jackson's band and I are planning to write and record a song about the children and HIV/AIDS. I will be meeting with them next Wednesday before work to start spinning some ideas, hopefully this song will be a good one.
Wednesday, June 24, 2009
Letters
Anyway, today, just like every Wednesday, we had a meeting to talk about the past week and goals to meet for upcoming weeks. Last week, I thought of an idea to get more letters to the sponsors from the kids and therefore more responses. I thought that we could take time out of a the last saturday program of each month to sit down and write. Peter then suggested taking just a certain amount of kids each saturday and then sending them all off at the end of the month. This will lead to more responses as was said before but this will also make the sponsor feel more connected to their sponsered child. The more connected they feel, the more personal it gets and the more this organization will spread by word of mouth. Right now, the great majority of sponsors are in Minnesota with a few clumps in other states. There are 49 other states that we need to try to wring out as many sponsors as possible. I feel that this incease in letters will truly help this happen.
Tuesday, June 23, 2009
Car Crash and Pineapple
Also, this might make for an interesting week. I bought a pineapple today and washed it with some clean water. After eating it I checked my email and found out from Dale, my step-dad, that I should steer clear from succulent fruits such as watermelon (I'm pretty sure the pineapple falls in the category of succulent as well). I am a little worried about it now because I ate more than half of it on my own but it was very delicious and I have some antibiotics just in case.
Monday, June 22, 2009
Update and Kenyan Culture
So I was finally able to upload a photo, sadly it took 20 minutes to do just one but I'll keep testing it and see what happens. This past Saturday was my first Saturday Program experience. The children really seemed to enjoy themselves and loved the fact that Paul and I are whiteys. They played games, raced, celebrated birthdays and were laughing, running, and flipping around the whole time.
That night, all the workers in the office and Peter went out for dinner and clubbing. It was a good time but Paul and I were wiped at around 2:00 A.M. and when Paul went over to ask Peter if we were heading out soon, he replied "4:30." That night, we didn't get back to Peter's place until 5:30 (that's Kenya for you). Then on Sunday, we met a board member, her children and her sisters and we hung out at an outdoor restaurant for about 5 or 6 hours. The music was so loud that Paul and I had to step out for a break every once in a while.
Now for a few things I have noticed of the Kenyan people and culture. Just so you all know, when I say Kenyans, I don't mean all Kenyans because I don't like to speak in generalities but I am saying the majority. The first thing I found interesting was their view on religion. 95% of Kenyans are Christian and most of the ones I've talked to follow the Bible in a very strict, blind manner. Peter is not one of them and he and I agree on a lot of things when it comes to religion but his wife for example, is one of the general populace. Many Kenyans believe that if anything good happens, it's God, and if anything bad happens, it's Satan. I was talking to Veronica, a case worker, and she told me that God helped the pilot get me here safely. I told her that it was simply the pilot's training and experience that got me here, she then asked me where he got that and I said from a teacher, she asked me where that teacher got the knowledge and I said research, and so on. Another example was that Peter's wife told me if a man rapes and murders a small child, that means that he has a demon. I told her no, he has a sexual psychiological disorder (among other issues) that can be fixed through extreme therepy, not exorcism. I believe that this thought process takes responsibility away from them and takes away the whole point to choice and logic, Peter agrees. Peter said that one reason many Kenyans believe this is because most of them havn't even traveled outside of Nairobi, let alone Kenya. Along with these beliefs comes the disdain for birth control which is one of the major facilitators to the spread of HIV/AIDS.
Another cultural thing I've seen is a little different but if someone is working or eating with their hands, when you go to greet them they hold out their hand and you grab their wrist (unlike American culture where you just say "oh, my hands are messy." This really threw me off guard the first time and I just sort of lightly punched the guys hand. A third thing that Paul and I have both seen is the noise of this culture. Kenyans love loud sounds almost all the time, be it music, TV, talking, etc. Everytime Paul or I are watching TV at Peter's, if one of his sons comes by to watch with us, he sits down, grabs the remote, and turns it up a couple notches to the point where it hurts to listen too (and even in our bedroom we can hear the TV clearly). It's the same way with music no matter what time of day (I mentioned Paul and I having to take breaks from the music because we couldn't talk to each other, we could only yell). One final cultural difference is the way Kenyans are socially. In America, we spend maybe a couple hours with a friend to grab lunch or something but here, you spend the entire day with one friend. Sorry this one was so long but I just wanted to let you guys know about the Kenyan beliefs and culture.
Friday, June 19, 2009
The New Intern
Today was an exciting day for me, especially because of the unfortunate blunders of Paul Walters's first day. He's been struggling to get his Mac's Wi-fi to work for the past hour, we walked for an obrusively long time while Jackson kept saying "just over there" (giving us false hope everytime he said this), and I witnessed the most ironic situation imaginable. We were walking and Jackson asked Paul if he was enjoying Kenya and Paul said so far but he needs to use the restroom; immediatley after he said this, a bird fecal matter-ed on the three of us (worst of all Paul and Jackson).
Today, we also visited the studio where Jackson and his band record and they asked me to sing something for them so after I did, his producer told me that me and Jackson's band will record a song and make a video before I head back to America so that'll be fun, he said it would even be put on the radio here (if it's good enough). After this we walked for about an hour until we reached to factory we will buy the t-shirts for the August Camp from. We then took a couple Matatus back to the office where we had lunch at 4:00 P.M. That's about it for now, it was a good day.
Thursday, June 18, 2009
Issues and Good Timez
Yesterday, Jackson and I visited the campground where we are going to have our August camp. Its near Kibera, the second biggest slums in Africa (the first is in South Africa). The camp was very nice and tucked away into the African forest. Tom, Peter, and I have been talking about the logistics of the camp through Skype; we are planning on sleeping over night a couple times with the older kids so that should be fun with a campfire and such. After that, everyone had a meeting to have a quick update on all the families and how everything is going in the program.
Last night, Peter and Jackie took me to a club called Tacos. They were playing some very cool music and they were also having a dance contest. Because I am a Mzungu (a white person or person of European decent), the MCs called me up and I danced in front of everyone in the club, twice; I got a free beer out of it so that made me feel better. I also met another girl at the club, Cate, and got her number; she's the one who won the "Sizzling Ladies Dance Contest."
Tuesday, June 16, 2009
Introduction
I am currently staying with Peter Ndungu and his family and I will be posting a video of his home sometime this week. I am having a great time at work as well. We visited a few families yesterday and I got to ride the Matatus. All the workers are very nice and I was given an African name to make me more culturalized; I am now known as "Kanjairo." Kanjairo is a comedian here in Kenya so I'm alright with that.
Peter took me out to a club last night where congo music was being played and him, his friend, and I drank a few Tuskers, a tasty Kenyan brew, and I was hit on by my first Kenyan girl, Jenfa. She was cute and we danced a little bit, I felt a little intimidated on account that I'm about as white as you can get but she said I was a good dancer.
That's it for now, I'll be posting some more photos and videos once I get them.